BlogTalk: Networking

Hi friends! Its Friday so that must mean its the first installment of my new series, BlogTalk.


Why BlogTalk?
With Alt and BlogPodium, I learned there is so much I don't know about blogging. Blogger vs. Wordpress, monetization, developing a brand... if you're like me, you've probably learned about these topics (and more) through your own trial and error, through word of mouth, and discussion with other bloggers. There is no central repository to find out "how to be a blogger" - and if there is, could someone please direct me to it :)

I thought with BlogTalk we could share what we do know and learn from each other. Sound good? I don't claim to be an expert so I hope you all will chime in in the comments and share your experiences and knowledge too!


As a blogger, networking is a great way to build and promote your blog. Networking means building relationships and connecting with your readers, other bloggers, and even PR folks. But how do you do that? A few approaches I've used:

  • Leave comments on other blogs. Say more than "great post!" or "cute pic!" if you want to be noticed. Leave thoughtful, in depth comments that add to the conversation. Other commenters and bloggers may be intrigued enough to click through your signature link and find out more about you.
  • Answer comments. Responding to people who leave comments on your blog can further your relationship with them. It can also foster a commenting culture and encourage people to come back to your blog (because they know they're being heard!)
  • Link up! Promote others through your blog roll. Mention posts on other blogs that intrigue you. If you drive traffic their way, they may be inspired to do the same and list you on their blog roll. What you don't want to do: ask for a link back from someone you've never engaged with or who knows nothing about you. This leads to the next point...
  • Don't be too aggressive or too impatient. When someone tries to give you the "hard sell" or has an obvious agenda it can be a turnoff. Take time to develop relationships with other bloggers, build trust and prove yourself by participating in the community.
  • Be helpful. If you see something that another blogger may enjoy, email and let them know. I once passed on a link to a well-known blogger and next thing I knew, she had written a post about the link and mentioned my blog as well. Be helpful with the PR folks too... if they contact you about a product you're not interested in, maybe pass them on to another blogger who might be more of a fit. This reflects well on you and the PR person will keep you in mind for future opportunities down the road.
  • Be memorable. Bloggers, especially the more well known ones, get contacted all the time. Include something in your communication that conveys you are a faithful reader (like mentioning a long-forgotten post). Offer something different and be specific. If you want to collaborate with another blogger, offer specific suggestions on how you can work together. Show that you understand what their needs and aims are.
  • Get off the blog. Network with others outside of the blog. Connect in person at blogger or industry events, or in other venues (Twitter, Facebook etc.). Again, this helps let people get to know you better - and when they know you, they are more apt to collaborate and support you.
Those are some of my thoughts. Now its your turn... have you used networking to grow your blog? Any tips to add? Or has anyone approached you in a really poor way? Any suggestions on what not to do?

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Style At Home Feature No.2

The fine folks at Style At Home really made full use of the photos they took at our house! Last month's issue featured the house tour and this month's issue (March 2012) features our home office in a roundup of four different workspaces:


The office looks so cheery and bright - and not the cluttered mess it usually is ;) If you've hopped over here from reading the article, welcome! You can see more about some of the office projects like the corkboard, the painted chairs, and the organization solutions

As I flipped through the magazine, another little surprise awaited me in the Letters to the Editor section:
This person was talking about our story in the February 2012 issue and I was thrilled that they "got it". A big reason why I blog about our renovations and projects is to show you that DIY doesn't have to look, well, DIY'd. Count this as my favourite letter ever.

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Wallpaper for Kids

Let's get back to talking about design, shall we? If you follow me on Pinterest, you'll know that there is one thing I'm obsessing about lately: wallpaper. More specifically, wallpaper for a new room for this little girl (Life List #55):

I know, she needs a haircut.
Yes, I totally just posted a photo I took of my daughter while she was sitting on the toilet. What can I say, the lighting was perfect and I had the camera handy. And two seconds after I took this photo, she said "Close the door Mommy. I need my privacy". She does that kind of thing now. Seriously.

Anyhoo, wallpaper. I've created a pinboard of my favourite options and I seem to be wavering between the flora and fauna look of these:

1 - Osborne & Little (O&L) Paradiso, 2 - O&L Rosabella, 3 - O&L Farfalla, 4 - O&L Perroquet, 5 - Joy Cho Petal Pusher, 6 - Anthropologie Watercolor Peony, 7 - O&L Swan Lake, 8 - Hygge West Daydream Sunshine, 9 - Wallpapercollective Camilla Meijer Rose Yellow


or the more graphic look of these:

1 - Aimee Wilder Clouds, 2 - Wallpapercollective French American Broadway Stars, 3 - Ferm Living Dotty, 4 - Wallpapercollective French American Rialto Grille, 5 - Orla Kiely Multi Stem, 6 - Ferm Living Ferris, 7 - Wallpapercollective Jill Malek Flux, 8 - O&L Coronata Star

Too. Many. Choices. I've tried asking the kid - but she loves them all too! There's definitely one I'm leaning towards but I'll have to see it in person before I make any choices. I find choosing wallpaper stressful, more stressful than choosing paint, because its so permanent, so bold. Paint can recede into the background, play secondary to the art and books and toys. But wallpaper isn't like that. Wallpaper takes centre stage even if the pattern is subtle and simple. Not to mention that this wallpaper will be the one that will be forever embedded in Chloe's memories when she reminisces about her childhood bedroom.

This choice is going to take a while!

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My Life List

Is it just me or has January just whizzed by? I can't believe the month is over and we've barely had a snowfall here!

So before the rest of the year gets away from me, I thought I would finally share with you my Life List. What exactly is on my List? Goals big and small, some readily achievable, others grandiose and looming. I believe a person should have some bold, audacious and outrageous goals. With lofty goals, you take big strides in achieving them - instead of baby steps. I blame it on Alt, but this year is all about thinking big and making stuff happen.



It was actually a fun exercise to put together this list; I really had to think and focus on what I really wanted - at least what I want today. I've managed to achieve some of these (green) and others are in the works (italics). Putting it out here for everyone to see does make me feel a bit, uhm, uncomfortable but who knows, maybe someone reading here can help make make a few of these dreams come true...

TO SEE

1.     Ride the Agawa Canyon tour train
2.     Vacation in the Hamptons
3.     Ride the Chunnel from London to Paris
4.     Vacation on Mackinac Island
5.     Visit the Gugghenheim Museum in Bilbao
6.     See the Mona Lisa
7.     See the Sistine Chapel
8.     Visit Rome
9.     Visit Japan
10.  Revisit PEI with Chloe & Sean to enjoy a church lobster dinner
11. Visit Paris every five years
12. Visit the Philippines with my family
13.  Visit Hawaii with my family
14. Have a spa weekend with my girlfriends
15. Take a road trip (again) with my girlfriends – no husbands, no kids
16. Attend Brimfield antique show
17. Attend Alt Summit
18.  Take a Mediterranean cruise
19.  Visit Australia

TO ENJOY

20.  Ride a bicycle the entire way from the cottage into town
21.  Cook every recipe in the Jamie Oliver Jamie’s Food Revolution cookbook
22.  Meet Sean for a surprise daytime date
23.  Meet Oprah
24.  Picnic in the park
25.  Sing in public
26.  Paint a painting
27.  Ride in a convertible while wearing a kerchief on my head
28.  Wear a fascinator
29.  Learn to drive manual
30.  Bake my own bread
31.  Send more snail mail (birthday cards, thank you notes)
32.  Read more books
33.  Go sailing with Sean
34.  Become proficient in Photoshop
35.  Go snorkelling
36.  Go fishing with my dad again
37.  Create a “printed” legacy for Chloe: printed photos, a book of blog posts since her birth
38.  Learn to play the violin
39.  Live with less 'stuff'

TO DO

40.  Pare down my wardrobe to only items that fit and make me feel pretty when I wear them
41.  Wear the pretty clothes & heels more often
42.  Find my perfect shade of lipstick
43.  Become fluent in French
44.  Have a natural labour and childbirth
45.  Give only handmade gifts for one Christmas
46.  Sew a dress for Chloe
47.  Sew a dress for myself
48.  Take a professional photography class
49.  Start and maintain a regular exercise program
50.  Drink more water and less pop
51.  Run a half marathon
52.  Figure out my “go to” outfit

HOME

53.  Plant a tree and watch it grow to maturity
54.  Renovate the basement
55.  Give Chloe a “big girl” room
56.  Redecorate the back deck
57.  Paint the exterior of our house
58.  Redo the front walkway and stairs
59.  Become proficient with the power tools
60.  Completely remodel another house
61.  Own a summer cottage
62.  Build a tree house
63.  Have a vegetable garden
64.  Have homes on three different continents
65.  Grow my own herbs

FAMILY

66.  Go to the tree farm and chop down our Christmas tree
67.  Start a Christmas tradition
68.  Visit a Disney park with my family
69.  Have a professional family photo taken
70.  Save enough to pay for Chloe’s education
71.  Be debt free
72.  Host my entire family for Thanksgiving dinner
73.  Go camping with Chloe
74.  Sleep in a tent in our backyard
75.  Teach Chloe how to ride a bike
76.  Teach Chloe how to swim
77.  See Chloe graduate from high school
78.  See Chloe graduate from university
79.  Do what I can to have a second child (take care of myself mentally and physically)
80.  Have a third child
81.  Live to see my grandchild
82.  Celebrate my 50th wedding anniversary

CAREER

83.  Be a keynote speaker
84.  Write a regular column for a magazine or newspaper
85.  Appear as a design expert on television
86.  Write a book
87.  Write a book about design
88.  Get sponsored/paid to travel and talk/blog about design
89.  Produce a TV show
90.  Appear on TV, radio, in a newspaper, in a magazine, online
91.  Have my home appear in a magazine
92.  Have one of my photographs published
93.  Launch a renovating/decorating business with Sean
94.  Open an online shop
95.  Be featured on theglow.com
96.  Make enough money to enable Sean to quit his job
97.  Make a living from my passions: blogging, crafting, creating, designing, and consulting.
98.  Build a career that allows me to work from home, earn a good living, and spend time with my family.


So there's my list, warts and all. Do you have a life list? What's on it? Have you managed to strike anything off your list yet?

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BlogPodium: Blogs & Media

What a weekend. I'm coming off of a design blogger high. Coming back from Alt, I spent the past week doing last minute prep with Lindsay and Shannon for our first BlogPodium. Then there was the Interior Design Show opening night gala on Thursday night followed by BlogPodium bright and early Friday morning and the rest of the day spent checking out IDS. More fun was had on Saturday at the third Canadian Design Bloggers Meetup. I was one of the organizers of the first Meetup so it was fun to see how much our community has grown. And on Sunday, I gave my weary feet a rest (and ignored the huge pile of laundry taunting me).

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Me & Lindsay. Photo by Jason Hudson.

BlogPodium was magical, exhilarating, and surpassed all our expectations. As I sat there on stage with Margot Austin, Kimberley Seldon, Kate Moore, and Leigh-Ann Allaire - each one of them respected and established design personalities (and might I add pretty darn hilarious and intimidating too) - I couldn't help but be proud of what we created.

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Kimberley Seldon, Kate Moore, Margot Austin. Photo by Jason Hudson.
As bloggers, I think we have a natural tendency to undervalue what we bring to the world of design. What we aimed to do with BlogPodium was to help design bloggers connect, converse, and collaborate with each other and with the design industry. I think we've firmly started down that road. We're at the table. We have an opinion. More and more, we're being heard.

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Leigh Ann Allaire, me, Kimberley Seldon, Margot Austin. Photo by Jason Hudson.

This event and Alt reaffirmed to me that we can learn so much if we just talk to each other. If we share what we know, then we all grow.

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Sarah, Christine, Ana, Christine
Britt at My Daily Randomness wrote an excellent roundup of the highlights of the "Blogs + Media" conversation but I thought I'd recap for those who weren't there and share a bit more about my experience and thoughts on what I think it takes to be noticed by magazines, television, and other high profile blogs. I do want to say that I have been very lucky and didn't have to pursue the opportunities that have come my way, but I don't think there is anything wrong in actively trying to get more press, if that is what you want. Why write a blog if you don't want a bit of attention? :)
  • Be Story-Worthy: One DIY project or fabulous post isn't enough to get you noticed. You will need to have a few projects of consistent high quality to convince others you could fill a TV segment, feature post, or news article. So get off Pinterest and do stuff!
  • Connect With Other Bloggers: When you are mentioned, appear in a blog roll, or write guest posts on other blogs, that creates more opportunities for media to find you. The producers of The Nate Berkus Show found me through Brooklyn Limestone's blog. Form relationships with bloggers you admire, with bigger bloggers who inspire you, with peers who share a similar taste and style - it can drive traffic to your site and also give you a sense of community.
  • Show It Off: Make it easy for visitors to find your best work. Have magazine-worthy renovations? Show them in a House Tour page. Do you have tons of inspiring DIYs and projects? Put them in a gallery like Cassie did, making it easy to see the breadth and quality of your work. Writers and producers don't have the time to dig through your archives so do the dirty work for them.
  • Personality, Please: The 'media mavens' mentioned this on the panel and I couldn't agree more. There's nothing worse than reading a blog with a bunch of pretty pictures and little else. Show who you are through your writing - are you sarcastic? Funny? Possess encyclopedic knowledge about 18th Century architecture? Put it out there. Be unique and stand out from the crowd.
  • Get A Professional Look: We all know that how you look plays a role in what type of first impression you make. I would say the same holds true for blogs. Have a nice, clean blog design, one that fits with your design aesthetic and content. Take better photographs - and make them large!
  • Make It Easy To Say Yes: Whether you are pitching to another blogger to do a guest post on their blog, or to a magazine to feature your home, think about it from their perspective - what are they looking for? What would make their job easier? How can you answer their questions before they even have them? For example, give them links to other guest posts you've done, provide some ideas on what 'your story' could be, send them the scouting shots. Make it simple and easy.
  • Be There: If you want to be on a TV show or magazine, be where they are. Follow them on Facebook and on Twitter. Engage with them, read their magazines, watch their shows. You'll have a better understanding of what they're looking for and see how you fit.
Even if you do these things and more though, realize that most times its pure luck. All it takes is the right pair of eyes to land on your blog... but if you're better prepared, those eyes might linger a while and lead to opportunities you never expected.

Did you attend BlogPodium? What were your takeaways? Or have you had some press recognition? Any tips you care to share?

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By the way, I do realize I've been a bit heavy with all the blogging talk lately. But rest assured, this is a design blog. We just signed with our contractor to do the dirty work on the basement. Demolition starts in two weeks or so. The renovations are coming, the renovations are coming!! :)

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